The life is so beautiful and different types of relations make it more beautiful. Most of the people do not value the importance to the relationship and end up with depression – this effects mental and physical health of a person. We can maintain strong bonding in any relationship by giving quality time.
Firstly, we need to understand what is a quality time in any relationship. To make it simple there are 2 types of quality time given below:
Taking a Quality Time:
When we ask someone to spend some time with him for a particular reason and we ask all the questions related with required information .it seems that we have given him quality time .in fact, we have taken other person`s quality time and we understand that we gave him quality time. The point is simple when you spend some time with someone for getting knowledge and information you need – it is not a quality time u gave. In fact, you have taken quality time of a person who provided you all the information. For Example, when father comes home after office and asks his son, come here sit with me and offers some questions such as:
Did you go to school?
Have you completed homework?
What game did you play today?
What did you have in lunch and breakfast today?
When father has this type of conversation with his child he usually thinks that he is giving a quality time to his son.
Giving a quality time:
When you talk to someone about his willingness or mutual consent .it shows that you are giving quality time to that person.
like, if a father says to his son, what do you want to talk to me about? And his son is free to ask any question without feeling that my father will be angry or busy and this conversation can last for no of minutes or hours without interruption and when this discussion is over both should wish for this conversation again. Either this conversation should be the choice of the person you want to give quality time or should be the mutual choice of both the persons.
All the relations in the world we can strengthen by giving a quality time without distraction.
By Karim Shirazi
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