Self Confidence is the key to success. Firstly, we need to understand that how can a person gain self-confidence? The answer is, when your ability and confidence combine then you gain Self Confidence. There is a problem with most of the people that they do not know about their abilities. For the purpose, you should think and note down all the good qualities u have. Not necessarily abilities should be from your professions. It can be anything like, some people are good at dealing with other people, some are good at negotiation and etc. after knowing your abilities you spontaneously feel confidence and ultimately you get Self-confidence.
Some people misinterpret self confidence in different ways. They think if someone has lots of money or big position in society or they can present well and this is good for gaining their confidence. I think you should get self-confidence by speaking truth and adding value in society and etc.
Another important point is appreciation .it is the fuel to work well. When you get a fuel, you feel active and energetic and also you believe in yourself. once you have strong belief in yourself so you can achieve the new heights which you feel later that it was impossible for me but your belief drove you to do it effectively. Remember past successes small or big no matter, whatever the good work you did, for the same your teachers, friends, relatives admired you just think about it. You will surely push u to do your best.
You had better appreciate others who are in your surroundings. There are number of people can get confidence and succeed in their lives if they are appreciated. So, always appreciate others for theirs small acts or big acts. Definitely, it will change the society in many ways and collectively so many people can get the key of success in their lives.
You should do good deeds too in order to gain confidence. Let me explain, those deeds which you do without any rewards. Helping or guiding someone in his education or career. There are so many works we can do only for the betterment of humanity without our own benefits and these works do not take much time but they give you the next level confidence and also prayers of other people and then whatever you purpose is, you will surely get the success you want or may be more than your expectations.
By Karim Shirazi
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